HAIETT CHOUHAN

DISCREPANCIES OF MEN AND WOMEN

It is not a mystery that communication between people of different sex many times (too many) becomes impossible. And more, when we refer specifically to romantic relationships.

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There is a very clear key, "IT IS THAT WE ARE DIFFERENT." Sometimes speaking at this time from the female point of view, we feel frustrated, misunderstood and even abandoned, in the middle of a conversation or discussion where we have the urgent need to make the man understand (in this case) what it is that we are it affects and we don't like it.

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We have to be clear first, that man does not like to argue, he does not know how to argue and as a general rule, he will end up making an escapism that will irritate us more. That does not mean, my dear ladies, that the man is not interested in what you are saying, simply that he is beyond that act itself and everything that comes with facing a woman.

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We, because of our innate condition as mothers, strongly advocate reason and have the need to conscientiously explain the problem in question. However, man is the beginning and the end, there is no intermediate part, but it is not a question of lack of intelligence, it is simply the pragmatism with which man governs himself.

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Examples:

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Imagine that you have just had an argument with your partner, you see things one way and he another, you will insist that he understand your point of view and the man at that moment will only be thinking about how to quickly settle that situation that bothers him, he could act giving you a kiss, yelling or the most common thing is by leaving. He does this to calm his nerves and try to find his center, of course at that moment, you think, "and the guy takes it and leaves ... ..". What happens from now on? You get angry or cry or despair. Well done wrong.

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What you must do is withdraw yourself, find your center and wait, by that I mean that you should not call, or write, just wait… .. The greatest enemy in that moment of conflict is silence.

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When the man returns, after "x" time, your first reaction is, "This one is going to find out", and there we do not take into account something important: that when a man returns, even if he does not apologize to you in the first instance, he is saying silent, sorry. How should we behave before this? Not coldly, or angry, just listen to him, let him express himself and you will see that balance will come from calm.

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This is a simple example to facilitate discord between both sexes.

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Haiett Chouhan